Bubby had a way with words, always knowing the right thing to say. Risha Katz was sitting shiva after her father a little bit after she was married. When Bubby and I came in, her mother in law said that she doesn’t know what to do, Risha refuses to eat and she’s very worried about her health. I don’t know what Bubby said to her, but she got her to eat something. I guess it’s not only what you say but also how, and she had that talent. She also used it for simchas.